Everyone aspires to reach a certain age where they can finally say that life tested them enough to finally make them learn the most important truths about their existence in the world. It is because every person wants to be wiser, smarter, and stronger. But the improvement of an individual cannot possibly happen without any significant changes. All transformations are not comfortable but these are extremely important because they tell you that whatever you are experiencing, it is perfectly normal.
Following are the uncomfortable signs that indicate you are becoming a better person:
You find the real cause of your problem:
When you begin to look at the root cause of any problem instead of just solving it temporarily, this indicates that you are becoming mature in your thinking.
You accept your mistakes:
Nobody likes to apologize but if you don’t feel ashamed in accepting your mistakes, it means you have evolved into a better person.
You ask more questions:
All your life, you make it clear that you are heard carefully. But once you get the understanding that listening is more important than talking, it indicates you have become wiser.
You become selective whom to spend time with:
As a young person, you don’t care about your time being wasted with people who only bring you down and make you more negative in your thoughts. But once you become selective about the people whom you like to spend time with, it indicates that you have grown and do not want to stay among negative people.
You are self-aware:
If you are becoming more self-aware and addressing things about yourself that you think are weak, it indicates you have grown mentally. Paying attention to your own needs and spending time on refining yourself, you are no doubt becoming a better person.
You tell the truth:
As you become wiser, you fearless. This is the reason you don’t get afraid of telling your family and friends what is true. No matter how awkward thing it is to say, you say it and stick to it.
You control your reactions:
There are many people whom you find it really hard to spend your time with. They often behave rudely with you but once you speak politely to them and respond to them instead of reacting, it shows that you have evolved into a much better person.
You ask for help:
When you understand that asking for help when you are in need, does not make you inferior to others, it shows you have become wiser.
You do not try to suppress your feelings:
In life, you go through experiences that often make you sad, anxious, and depressed. But as you become wiser, you do not try to ignore these feelings instead, you accept them with an open mind. You do not feel ashamed and ask for help when you understand you can’t deal with them on your own.
You accept your flaws:
No one is perfect but still, people waste a lot of time trying to reach perfection. But when you understand that perfection isn’t real, it means you have grown in your thoughts and emotions. You accept your flaws and are not afraid to discuss them with others. You just do your best and hope for the better outcomes.